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Wives of Faith Monthly Challenge - Reverence

Each month we feature a new challenge for Wives of Faith readers. The goal is to create better habits as wives, and begin to change how WE do things instead of trying to change our husbands.



Now the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper meet suitable, adapted, and complementary for him. ~ Genesis 2:18 

WIVES OF FAITH MONTHLY CHALLENGE - Kindness

June 2007 - Reverence

This month on Wives of Faith the focus is reverence.  Let's learn to show reverence to our beloved husbands...

Reverence is only used 13 times in the entire Bible. That is not very many when you look at the Word in its entirety. They are all basically from the same meaning; awe of, revere, a feeling or attitude of deep respect tinged with awe, the outward manifestation of this feeling. The thesaurus gave some more insight; honor, admiration, adoration, devotion, show honor and devotion to, look up to, respectfully cherish.

At least two are directly related to how a wife should act towards her husband. This was very enlightening to me. Considering how few times the word is mentioned, it must be a very important character trait for wives to seek.

However, let each man of you without exception love his wife as his very own self; and let the wife see that she respects and reverences her husband that she notices him, regards him, honors him, prefers him, venerates, and esteems him; and that she defers to him, praises him, and loves and admires him exceedingly.
- Ephesians 5:33

When they observe the pure and modest way in which you conduct yourselves, together with your reverence for your husband; you are to feel for him all that reverence includes: to respect, defer to, revere him--to honor, esteem, appreciate, prize, and, in the human sense, to adore him, that is, to admire, praise, be devoted to, deeply love, and enjoy your husband. - I Peter 3:2

Here is the challenge:

How Wives Can Show Reverence Towards their Husbands...

  • respect our husbands
  • prefer them above all (except God of course)
  • esteem him
  • admire him openly...in public and private
  • defer to him...go to him for advice and include him in decisions
  • praise and edify him...build him up with your words
  • have fun and enjoy him

Study and memorize Ephesians 5:33 and I Peter 3:2. Dig deeper and seek God as to how you may lack in this areas and ways that you can improve.

Honor and respect him with your thoughts, words, and actions.

Thoughts:

Submit your mind to the authority of Jesus Christ when dishonoring thoughts cloud your mind. (2 Corinthians 10:5, Hebrews 3:1)

Words:

Tell him that he is wonderful, awesome, more than you dreamed...even if by faith the words must come. SPEAK life to your husband. Life and death are in the power of your tongue.

Speak positive words to him in public and private. When you are with him and when you are not.

Actions:

Listen to your husband and honor the things that matter to him. If he wants you to clean your house, respect his request and DO it. If her wants you to spend less, begin to honor him with your finances. If your husband needs you to do something for him, DO it without complaining.  

Include him in decisions. Be an encouragement for him to be a PART of your life and the life of your family.

Reverence your husband.

See you next month!

Copyright © Lara Velez


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God Bless You ALL!

Sincerely,
Lara

Wives of Faith Monthly Challenge - Reverence

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